谨以此书献给我的父亲。

The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect.You are imperfect，and so am I.All humans are imperfect，even the man outside my apartment who litters.When I was young，I wanted to be anybody but myself.…He said I would have to accept myself，my warts and all，and we don't get to choose our warts.They are part of us and we have to live with them.We can，however，choose our friends and I am glad I have chosen you.

摘自电影Mary and Max